"She’s Gotta Have It" Gets Canceled, Spike Lee Working On War Drama For Netflix

It’s a sad day for She’s Gotta Have It fans as it is reported that Netflix has canceled the show after only two seasons. Spike Lee’s remake his cult classic film the same name follows the story Lee’s 1986 original as it chronicled the polyamorous, artistic life Nola Darling as she navigates through self-discovery, art, love, and unconventional relationships. DeWanda Wise starred as the principal character and acted alongside Ilfenesh Hadera, Anthony Ramos, Lyric Bent, Chyna Layne, Cleo Anthony, and Fat Joe

Ted Sarandos, the Chief Content Officer at Netflix issued a statement about the cancelation by saying, “Spike Lee is one the greatest filmmakers all time and we’re thrilled he brought the series She’s Gotta Have It(1986, based on his first feature film) to Netflix. While this is our last season, we’re very proud that it will be on our service for years to come, and excited to be working with Spike on his upcoming Netflix film Da 5 Bloods.”

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Lee’s forthcoming Netflix film is reportedly about a group friends who are also Vietnam War veterans. They return to the places where they faced tragedies in battle as they hunt for both the remains a friend they lost in the war along with buried treasure. The film stars Giancarlo Esposito (who also worked with Lee on Do the Right Thing), Delroy Lindo (who worked with Lee on Malcolm XCrooklyn, Clockers), Clarke Peters (who worked with Lee on Red Hook Summer), and Isiah Whitlock Jr. (who worked with Lee on She Hate Me, 25th Hour, Red Hook Summer, Chi-Raq and BlacKkKlansman).

Michael Jackson Sexual Abuse Documentary Leaving Neverland Receives Five Emmy Nominations

Both Leaving Neverland and Surviving R. Kelly received Emmy nominations.

Leaving Neverland, the 2019 HBO documentary that tells the story of two individuals who claim that Michael Jackson sexually abused them as children, has received five Emmy nominations: Outstanding Directing, Editing, Sound Editing, Sound Mixing, and Overall Picture, all in the Documentary/Nonfiction program section.

The 2019 Emmy Awards will take place on September 22nd and will air on Fox from 8-11 PM EST (5-8 PM PST).

Additionally, Surviving R. Kelly, a multipart Lifetime documentary that explores allegations of sexual abuse that R. Kelly is said to have committed, received one Emmy nomination, for Outstanding Informational Series or Special.  Surviving R. Kelly was a commercial success and a major influencer of public opinion.

Kelly was charged with sexual abuse crimes at the state level earlier this year, and last week, Kelly was arrested for federal sex-crimes charges.

The lawyers for Michael Jackson’s estate vehemently denied the accusations made in Leaving Neverland, and an additional documentary, Michael Jackson: Chase the Truth, will be released on August 13th; the work will aim to disprove the allegations made in Leaving Neverland.

Chase the Truth is being distributed by Amazon and will debut on a multitude of on-demand video services.

Moreover, R. Kelly and his lawyers have also denied the charges, and it’s worth mentioning that in 2008, a jury found Kelly not guilty on 14 of 14 similar counts.  Kelly is currently being jailed — he was labeled a threat to the community and was refused bond — and will reappear in court on September 4th.

Beyonce’s Netflix special, Homecoming, was also nominated for six Emmys. Also, Sara Bareilles received a nomination for her songwriting contributions to CBS’s Tony Awards. Despite being nominated in the past, both women are trying to secure their first Emmy award.

Teyana Taylor Goes Off On The Money Team Associate Who Allegedly Disrespected Her

Someone unleashed the Teyana Taylor‘s’ inner beast and she didn’t care who witnessed it. Taylor was at an event minding her business when she got into a confrontation with members Floyd Mayweather‘s The Money Team. A witness captured the moment on camera and viewers can see that whatever went down was serious because Taylor was squared up and ready. Another man attempted to quell the situation by standing in front Taylor, but she made sure that her grievances were heard.

According to The Shade Room, Taylor asked one the men from TMT a question, but instead answering, he responded disrespectfully and called her out her name. This angered the singer and she went f on him. After the social media outlet shared the Snapchat clip, Taylor jumped in the comments to clarify that she wasn’t acting out character over something insignificant.

“A persons tone can be at level 1 but DISRESPECT can be at level 100,” she wrote. “Trust & believe if I’m going f on someone it’s w/ very good reasoning. I will not tolerate any disrespect from anyone, idc who the hell he work for.” Snoop Dogg can be seen in the video clip standinig nearby, but he didn’t seem to want to get involved in the altercation. He did, however, also share his thoughts on the situation in the video’s comments.

“She from Harlem. Don’t. Play with my niece 💙💙,” he wrote. Lil Duval said that this behavior isn’t anything new. “That’s normal everyday teyana 😂😂😂😂😂,” he joked.

Kevin Spacey’s Sexual Assault Case Dropped In Massachusetts

Kevin Spacey was one the many men who got hit in the peak the #MeToo movement, although his story was unique to most others. He was accused sexually assaulting underage boys and once he was exposed, he took the opportunity to come out as gay. It’s unsure who on his team thought that was an appropriate time to do so — or if he thought people were outraged over his sexual preference — but he was met with even more backlash. As more allegations came out, a waiter, who was 18-years-old at the time, sued Spacey for groping him at a job. Now, it appears that Spacey has managed to dodge any sort criminal conviction for sexual assault.

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TMZ reports Kevin Spacey’s been cleared in the criminal case against him in Nantucket, Massachusetts “due to the unavailability the complaining witness.” This comes after the accuser dropped his civil lawsuit against the actor. Although there wasn’t any reason as to why he decided to drop the case, there were more issues within the criminal case. The accuser plead the fifth this month after Spacey’s attorney questioned him on deleted texts that could’ve worked in the actor’s favor.

The boy who accused Spacey is the son Boston TV anchorwoman Heather Unruh who made the allegations public in the first place. As for he texts, she reportedly told investigators that she deleted a few texts from his phone related to “frat boy activities.”

Lakers’ Anthony Davis Reveals Two Favorite NBA 2K Teams To Play With

Los Angeles Lakers big man Anthony Davis recently attended an Xbox event in promotion  NBA 2K20, where he was asked which team he prefers to play with. Spoiler: it’s not the Lakers.

According to the 2K20 cover star, he doesn’t like playing as himself in the video game. Instead, Davis says he always used to play with either the San Antonio Spurs (when they had Kawhi Leonard) or the Houston Rockets.

“I would never play as the #Lakers because I don’t like playing with myself on 2K. I always used to play with Kawhi and the #Spurs or Houston with James Harden], Trevor Ariza].”

With Kawhi now playing for the Clippers, and the Spurs not exactly an exciting 2K team, it looks like AD will be gaming with Harden, Russ and the Rockets in 2K20.

2K Games recently revealed player ratings for the top stars in 2K20, which obviously included both Davis and his teammate, LeBron James. Combined the duo boast an average rating 95.5, which is the highest in the game, and barely better than the Clippers’ Kawhi Leonard and Paul George whom average a 95 overall.

NBA 2K20 will be available on PlayStation 4, Xbox One, Nintendo Switch, and Windows PC starting September 6, but you can pre-order your copy today. Scroll down for a look at the game’s Top 10 players, as well as the first teaser trailer.

Colin Kaepernick’s Nike "Dream Crazy" Campaign Nominated For Emmy

Colin Kaepernick is one the most polarizing names in all sports because his political stances that have both divided and united football fans. The former San Francisco 49ers quarterback received hefty criticism after he started kneeling during the National Anthem at football games. Sports fans felt as though he was disrespecting the flag, despite Kaepernick’s insistence that he was standing up for racial inequality and injustice. Kaepernick has yet to find work in the NFL since his protests although he is still sponsored by Nike who have used his services on a number occasions.

Back in September, Nike dropped their “Dream Crazy” campaign which was narrated by Kaepernick. This particular campaign was a celebration Nike’s 30th anniversary the “Just Do It” slogan. After it aired, Nike saw an increase in sales and some praise for their inclusion Kaepernick.

Nike has received further recognition for the ad as it was recently nominated for an Outstanding Commercial award at the 2019 Emmys. The annual award show will take place on September 22nd and will see the best names in television make their way to the red carpet. 

Kaepernick and Nike will be up against heavy hitters in the media industry such as Netflix and Apple.

JR Smith Reacts To Being Waived By The Cleveland Cavaliers

JR Smith has been a polarizing player in the NBA thanks to his infectious personality that has given him the nickname “the Henny God.” Smith can frequently be seen taking his shirt f and having an overall good time wherever he goes, although sometimes this doesn’t translate well to the basketball court. During the 2018 NBA Finals, Smith made one the worst mistakes in the history the sport when he dribbled the ball out thinking the Cavs had a lead. The score was actually tied at the time and the team ended up losing in game 1 the Finals. Eventually, the Cavaliers were swept and LeBron James left the team.

Heading into this season, it was clear that Smith was on thin ice and after just 11 games, he was benched for the rest the season. On Monday, Smith was finally waived from the team which makes him a free agent. Tim Hardaway Jr. took to his Instagram story with some words encouragement for Smith, saying “free at last. Thank God Almight, he is free at last.” Smith saw the message and reposted it on his own Instagram story which pretty much lets us know that he was anxious for his tenure in Cleveland to come to an end.

While his demise in the city is unfortunate, at least he can say he won a championship.

LeBron James Blesses Anthony Davis With An Invite To Taco Tuesday

LeBron James was on a mission this Summer to make the Los Angeles Lakers one the best teams in the league. For the past few months, James was lobbying the Lakers to trade for Anthony Davis and last month, he finally got his wish. Now, the two seem to be inseparable and are excited to be the best dynamic duo in the league. Whether it’s at Summer League games or press conferences, LeBron and AD have taken every opportunity to bond and become closer as friends and as teammates.

The Lakers star’s latest attempt to bond with AD came in the form the mythical Taco Tuesday. Every Tuesday, James hops on Instagram and wins father the year awards everywhere as he gets his wife and kids pumped up about some good old tacos. The videos he posts from the taco night are usually extremely wholesome and make you question why anyone would ever hate on LeBron. Last night though, James invited Davis to his house and be a part his extended family.

Davis fit in pretty nicely and seemed to be just as shy as LeBron’s kids when it came time to yell “It’s taco Tuesday” like a maniac. 

On the surface, Davis enjoying some Tacos with LeBron doesn’t seem like much a big deal at all but it does speak to the larger picture the Lakers franchise. It’s clear that LeBron and Davis have a great relationship and this will surely translate to the court come October.

Van Jones Believes Meek Mil’s 2008 Conviction Will Be Overturned In 3-6 Weeks

We’re halfway through 2019 and Meek Mill is still on probation for a drugs and weapons conviction from 2008. But the rapper and his legal team are still fighting hard to have his conviction overturned. Meek showed up in court today to make a case to get his conviction tossed out. Although there wasn’t a ruling made today for a retrial, the CEO  REFORM Alliance is feeling optimistic that Meek will finally get the justice he deserves by the end the summer.

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Speaking to the press outside the Pennsylvania Superior Court, Van Jones broke down what he thinks will likely happen down the line in the case. Meek and his legal team have asked for a retrial on the case due to credibility issues with the cop who testified against Meek and the current judge on the case. Judge Genece Brinkley has been accused having a personal grudge against Meek. She later sentenced Meek to 2 to 4 years in prison for popping a wheelie. 

“This hearing was an extraordinary moment where you have attorneys on both sides saying that a new trial should go forward,” Van Jones told reporters. “The judges themselves seem convinced that the underlying facts are not at dispute: The cop that put Meek Mill in prison is completely not credible, number one. Number two, both sides this case put forward multiple credible reasons that there should be a new trial. No judge disputed a single claim from either side,” he continued. “If a new trial is ordered, it is hard for us to imagine the District Attorney being able to move forward. We think we are three to six weeks away from a decision in this case that will right an injustice that has been on the books and ruining Meek Mill’s life.”

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The Rise Of Ace Hood: From "Gutta" To Mixtape God

Ace Hood has become somewhat an unsung hero around these parts. Though he moves at his own pace, which is to say, a moderate one, Ace Hood has nonetheless amassed a loyal following willing to support his music in droves. We’ve seen it time and time again. In 2017, his Trust The Process mixtape brought over one-hundred-thousand fans to its HNHH page, amassing one-hundred-and-sixty one likes and a strong user rating 96%. For some context, Kendrick Lamar’s DAMN sits at 109k with a user score 94. J. Cole’s KOD sits at 111K with a user score 89. DJ Khaled, the man to whom Hood was once signed, brought in 67K with his Grateful project. 

And that’s only Trust The Process. A quick perusal through his Starvation series, specifically 3, 4, and 5, reveals Hood’s numbers surpassing three-hundred thousand on a recurring basis. Though Hood is not quite matching some the game’s prominent A-Listers, his run from 2014 to 2017 brought him surprisingly close – at least, within the scope our site’s audience. In fact, said run was enough to cement him as a bonafide HNHH mixtape Diety, one capable uniting the users with startling efficacy. Yet there remains a strange disconnect where Ace Hood’s popularity is concerned. As now, Hood has a lone platinum plaque to his name, which arrived courtesy 2013’s “Bugatti.” And that track, clearly his biggest one to date, came equipped with appearances from both Future and Rick Ross. The Trials And Tribulations (the album from whence it came) Wikipedia page indicates that it wasn’t exactly a sales juggernaut, save for the success “Bugatti.” So how did Ace Hood become such a sought-after presence?
 The Rise Of Ace Hood: From "Gutta" To Mixtape God

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Does the threat looming absence indeed make the heart grow fonder? Or perhaps the inherent charm an underdog narrative played a role. Either way, Ace Hood’s stock only seemed to rise in the wake his departure and perceived “mistreatment” at We The Best music, though Hood would later come to clarify that he and Khaled remained on good terms during a 2017 Breakfast Club interview. Regardless how it happened, the fact remains that Hood’s last studio album came arrived on this very day in 2013. The fact that an artist managed to retain such a following on the strength his mixtape run alone is quite the notable feat. A feat decidedly “old-school” in nature, evocative two different hip-hop eras: the back–trunk compact disc hustle popularized by names like Kay “The Drama King” Slay, DJ Envy ( The Breakfast Club fame) and DJ Clue (“Desert Storm!”), and and the second coming the golden mixtape age, which found websites like our own, DatPiff, and MyMixtapez fering up drops from Lil Wayne, Wiz Khalifa, Mac Miller, A$AP Rocky, and course – Hood himself.

Consider the man’s work ethic, which is nothing short prolific. Within a ten-year time frame, Hood delivered twenty mixtapes, including two series, both which appeared to kick f around the time he delivered his final major label project. Now, this would have been a time before the normalization streaming, which explains why Hood’s Trials is nowhere to be found within our database. Starvation 4, his first release post Trials, was posted on January 17th 2014. Today, it’s sitting at an impressive 329K visits, many which would have likely opted for a free download. Consider that at the time release, it would not have been an Apple Music link present, but rather a download from our player; mixtapes were free to circulate, after all. This sudden industrial shift toward free music, put forth by established names and promising newcomers alike, arrived at the onset “the blog era.” Together, they helped usher in a strange and fruitful time, in which fans had a wealth music at their fingertips and a handful websites qualified to play “the plug.” 
 The Rise Of Ace Hood: From "Gutta" To Mixtape God

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While Hood was still releasing mixtapes at the height his mainstream rise, the events 2013 clearly brought upon a shift in his artistic development. In hindsight, the years between 2011 and 2016 found the industry in a state flux, playing catch-up to cup the sand slowly tumbling through their fingers. Having already been cast aside by that very industry and likely disillusioned in the process, Ace Hood found himself the beneficiary the shifting tides. With “free mixtapes” as his product, Hood began to sling music at an alarming rate, with no shortage fans ready to receive each drop. Given the “free” nature it all, gone were any inhibitions about footing uncertain bills. The system seemed perfectly tailored to an artist like Ace, who never quite found commercial success during his active time in the majors. 

Every time Ace Hood releases music, even today, it’s fascinating to see the loyalty with which our users support him. Perhaps it’s the result serendipitous timing, the marriage two new and exciting developments in the harmonious worlds blogs and mixtapes. With Ace Hood serving as one the main supporters content, the relationship he forged with our own site was symbiotic in nature. And given the statistics shared above, it’s clear that Ace had earned – and still retains — the love the people. The sheer frequency with which he released music saw to that, but there’s likely more to the story. Though still technically signed, Ace carried himself with the liberated spirit a free agent, tearing other rapper’s instrumentals apart with the passion an unsigned hype. Given the freedom to move at his own pace, the Floridian took the ball and ran, discovering a process he’d eventually come to trust. 

StubHub Refunds $500,000 In Tickets Costs Following New York's Power Outage

On Saturday, New York City experienced a comprehensive blackout that affected 30 blocks of Manhattan and a substantial number of individuals.

Included in the latter were thousands of ticketholders; 27 different events, including Jennifer Lopez’s much-anticipated Madison Square Garden concert, were cancelled or rescheduled as a result of the power outage.

StubHub, the eBay-owned ticket marketplace, has now issued more than $500,000 in refunds to customers who planned to attend one of these events.  Importantly, these refunds apply to performances that were cancelled and not rescheduled — 25 of the aforementioned 27 will not be rebooked.  In those cases, ticketholders received a full refund.

The two shows that were rescheduled are Jennifer Lopez’s concert, which took place on July 15th, and Dave Chappelle’s stand-up comedy performance, which will go down on July 21st.  Additionally, StubHub indicated that clients who cannot make the new J-Lo concert date — after all, there’s a big difference between Saturday night and Monday night — will have the option to resell their tickets without paying a fee.

That isn’t a perfect solution, especially for people with restrictive schedules and limited time to conduct resales.  For StubHub, the measure represents a middle ground, with a power outage representing a contractual ‘Act of God’ that absolves most companies from liability.

As for the main cause of the power outage itself, officials have said that the mess began with a single malfunctioning cable, which failed to trigger the relay-protection system and proceeded to impact a huge portion of the Big Apple. The issue appears to have been fixed, but New York Governor Andrew Cuomo stated that further changes and improvements need to be made by power companies to prevent future problems.

Jennifer Lopez is currently completing her fourth concert tour, It’s My Party; the name is meant to commemorate her 50th birthday, which will come on July 24th.  The 30-show tour began in Inglewood, California, and will cover most of the United States.  Additionally, stops will be made in Israel, Russia, Turkey, Spain, and Egypt, and the tour will wrap on August 11th.

U.S. State Department Warns Sweden to Treat A$AP Rocky 'With Respect'

Will the feds make #JusticeForRocky a reality?

A$AP Rocky has been jailed in Sweden since July 3rd, shortly after he and his crew were involved in an altercation with a small group of Swedish individuals.  Because the Swedes were the clear aggressors — someone on Rocky’s side captured the entire episode on video — most fans and observers initially believed that Rocky would be set free.

That has not been the case.

Instead, Rocky has been jailed in Stockholm while police investigate the confrontation and decide whether to prosecute the rapper for assault, which, under Swedish law, carries a maximum sentence of six years. (The judge ruled Rocky to be a flight risk, and in Sweden, suspected criminals can be detained while investigations are ongoing.)

As a result of the detainment, Rocky has been forced to cancel his remaining European tour stops.

Now, the U.S. State Department has stepped in to help Rocky, whose real name is Rakim Mayers.

State Department officials worked to have the rapper moved to a more sanitary jail and said, a statement, that American citizens are to be ‘treated with respect’ by foreign governments. A State Department representative also met with Rocky in person, though their conversation was limited in length and scope; Swedish guards were apparently listening in on the dialogue.

Lastly, U.S. representatives have stated that they are actively monitoring the episode and may provide more comprehensive assistance in the coming days.

The Swedish government has until July 19th to set Rocky free or apply for an extension to keep him detained.  The bad news is that the rapper has suffered personally and financially from what appears to be an attack instigated by the accusers.  The good news, however, is that Rocky’s fans have banded together to provide support.  At the time of writing, about 600,000 individuals have signed the #JusticeForRocky petition.

With the U.S. State Department, numerous celebrities, and 600,000 fans in his corner, A$AP Rocky is hardly suffering from a lack of support.  Unfortunately, that isn’t doing much to get Rocky out of jail — at least not yet.

Lakers Reportedly Not Interested In JR Smith, Fans React

Just yesterday, JR Smith was waived by the Cleveland Cavaliers which means he is now a free agent and can join pretty much any team he wants, as long as they want him too. Smith has had an interesting career in the NBA, to say the least, and spent the last few years with the Cavs where he won an NBA championship. After last year’s NBA Finals fiasco, Smith was on thin ice with the team and spent the vast majority last season on the bench. His departure from the Cavs was inevitable and yesterday was the final nail in the cfin.

A couple weeks ago, it was reported by Chris Haynes Yahoo! Sports that Smith would most likely end up with the Los Angeles Lakers and reunite himself with LeBron James. Well, according to a short and sweet tweet from ESPN’s Adrian Wojnarowski, that couldn’t be further from the truth.

As far as Woj bombs go, this was pretty tame and kind out left field. It’s rare the ESPN reporter tweets about transactions that aren’t going to happen, so fans were suspicious that perhaps the Lakers wanted to distance themselves from Smith. Either way, the fans had a ton fun in Woj’s comments and had some pretty hilarious memes in reaction to the news.

You have to feel for Smith who is simply a loveable NBA character who found himself at the center one the worst plays in NBA history.

Warriors GM Addresses D’Angelo Russell Trade Rumors

Golden State Warriors General Manager Bob Myers insists the team did not acquire D’Angelo Russell this f-season with the sole intention trading him, despite the rumors that have surfaced in recent weeks.

Shortly after the Warriors and Nets agreed to the blockbuster deal that sent Kevin Durant to Brooklyn and D-Lo to the Bay Area, the New York Times’ Marc Stein reported that Golden State would be trading Russell at some point, It’s just a matter when.”

Myers, however, says there are no imminent plans to move Russell. Furthermore, Myers explained that he wants to see how the 23-year old All Star fits into their system before reaching any decisions.

Per ESPN’s Nick Friedell:

“I know it’s been written and speculated. That’s fine,” Myers said Monday, according to ESPN. “That’s what everybody’s job is to do. We didn’t sign him with the intention just trading him. We haven’t even seen him play in our uniform yet, and a lot people have us already trading him. That’s not how we’re viewing it. Let’s just see what we have. Let’s see what he is. Let’s see how he fits.

“Part our job in the front fice and the coaching staff and the organization is, ‘How does it all work?’ … So much our sport at least, and maybe other sports, is, ‘What are you doing next?’ We got to figure out what we’re doing now.”

Russell, who inked a four-year $117M deal with the Warriors, developed into an All Star last season in Brooklyn, averaging career highs across the board with 21.1 points, 7 assists and 3.9 rebounds per game while leading the Nets to the playfs for the first time in four seasons.

YFN Lucci Is The Topic Of Conversation In Reginae Carter & Toya Wright’s Interview

Reginae Carter has lived her entire life in the limelight. Depending on who you ask, her father, Lil Wayne, is considered a top ten GOAT rapper all time. Her mother, Toya Wright, is a reality television star and entrepreneur, and many the people who are close family friends are also famous figures. Reginae was raised in the spotlight and the generation social media, so she is accustomed to living her life transparently. 

This can become difficult for people who are adding themselves into her mix, including someone such as YFN Lucci, Reginae’s on-again-f-again boyfriend. As he continues to move forward with his rap career, the young artist can’t help but find himself in the headlines over his relationship problems rather than his music.

During a recent trip with her mother to V-103 radio station, Reginae was asked to share the status her romance with Lucci after they were involved in a social media spat after he commented on a video a woman performing the infamous “Cucumber Challenge.” Reginae said, “Right now we’re both just doing our own thing. You know with growing up and being so young and having the relationship in the public and having everyone’s opinion and everyone feeling like their opinion matters, it’s like, it’s a little stressful. But honestly, I’ve been learning that no matter what, I gotta do what’s best for me and I gotta follow my heart. I gotta do what makes me happy.”

Toya said she wanted her daughter to find a respectable young man who treats Reginae right, but the 20-year-old shared that it can be difficult making decisions that she feels would be best for herself while also making her mother proud. “I can’t think about what my mama wants me to go do, even though I want to make her happy,” she said. “My thing is, I want my mom to be happy and I want to be happy, but it’s like, you’ve got to go through things to get through things. I’m young, and my mom, she was young and she went through this. Right now, she’s with a man that respects and that loves her, but she’s also in her 30s and has went through it all. I understand the ‘I went through something so I’m going to tell you something so you don’t have to go through it.’ But who really listens?”